A blowjob is a romantic gesture that can show your man how much you care about him. They are also great for creating a buildup to orgasm.
It’s important to note that a blow job should never be a requirement or pressure for your partner, though some men might beg you to give them one. As with every sexual experience, it’s a two-way street. If you’re feeling nervous or uncomfortable about giving a blowjob, don’t let it hold you back. You might want to consider giving a blow job later in the date. Or after you’ve got to know him better.
Positions For The Best Blowjob
There are a few different positions that make the best blowjobs, and they vary depending on how you want to stimulate him. For example, if you’re looking to play with the scrotum, you might want to sit up in a chair and straddle his legs so that you have plenty of access to his scrotum and the crotch area.
Alternatively, you could kneel between his legs and offer him a massage. This is one of the best positions for this because you’ll be able to fully relax his body and give him every single subtle ripple of pleasure that you can. It’s also a nice way to make him feel powerful and honored, which can be a big part of what makes receiving a blowjob so enjoyable for some men.
Another good blow job position is lying down on his back, straddling his head/shoulders, and then slowly lowering yourself onto his mouth to lick it. This will really get him excited and giddy.
A great thing about this position is that it’s also a little more exotic than the other positions, so you can use it to spice up your oral sex if you’re looking for some new and exciting ways to please your guy.
The Magic Hand Trick
If you’re struggling with gagging during your blowjob, try placing a hand near the base of his penis. This will prevent him from triggering your gag reflex and help you control how deep you take him. If he’s especially well endowed, you can wrap a few fingers around the base. So that you can only take a small amount of his penis into your mouth. Otherwise, just place your hand by the base of his penis and gently pull it toward your mouth as you lick it.
Don’t neglect ball-work — balls are incredibly sensitive and can be a great addition to a blow job. Taking the time to lick and sucking his dick while you stroke the base will be amazing for him, and will definitely add to the overall sensation.
The Perineum — Some people love having their skin touched, and the perineum is right between the ball sack and the anus. If your guy likes to tuck his pants, you can try gently tickling this area with your fingers while you’re giving him a blowjob.
